I believe that everyone has got bad blood. Some of them show less and some just show more. When I was in form 1, I met a classmate who was nice to me and willing to talk to me in class. Then we became friends. But one day, a group of classmates asked my friend whether she wanted to join their group or not. They told her one condition was that she could no longer talk with me after joining their group because they dislike me. And, she chose the group. I remembered that day after school, my friend brought me to the library and talked to me. She said, "There are 10 classmates in class hate you right now. And I don't want them to hate me. So, take care!" Then she left. The next day, she no longer talked to me. And, we had not talk for the rest of the secondary school life. After betrayal, I was very disappointed by her act. Then I hate her and also hate that group of classmates in my whole secondary school life. When I was in form 6, I knew that group of classmates still hate me. And that time I thought they were just silly and foolish. I decided not to hate them anymore. There was no use when I hate someone, that just made me unhappy.
Let me ask you, if someone betray you, what will you do? Get revenge and vent your anger, hate the betrayer all the rest of your life, or let it go and move on. For me right now, I would choose the third one because it would be painful to torture yourself to hate one person for the rest of your life. Besides, the betrayer has just taught you a lesson. So, you can learn from that and move on, and be a better person.
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